The Unchartered Waters of Divorce

Many women are private people and keep things to themselves while trying to find a solution to what troubles them, while others chat over and over about the problem thinking that produce a solution. What both of these have in common is that solutions cannot be seen when we only focus on the problem at hand. Many people need guidance and help move them from where they are to where they want to be. This is the key ingredient to get to the other side of what they have been dealing with for far too long.

Is this you? Recently divorced, in process of a divorce, thinking about divorce, looking to avoid a divorce, know someone getting divorced? No matter where you fall, there is a common denominator, What’s your next steps?

So many females just want the problem to go away, and are at a loss of what to do and who can help them. They often get ripped off by people who aren’t in their best interest, and don’t feel safe in multiple areas of life. They have a hard time opening up because they fear if they do it will be used against them.

This your time for a reclamation project on your life. Yes, you still may be a mother. Yes, you still have responsibilities and things to tend to and handle, and yet, it is your time to reclaim what’s in it for you. This is where you get to recharge your battery and reclaim your needs, voice, choice, and your life.

Whispering Winds Healing is a judgement free safe space. It is a of being held, sheltered, and healing. The clients I work with feel protected enough to open up, see the truth in what’s really happening, and find the courage to heal and break free from what has been haunting them in their lives for years, maybe even decades. They finally have someone in their corner they can trust with their life to help them get back on track, who is in their best interest, and they can heal once and for all from what they have been dealing with and what life has thrown their way.

I help women who are looking to find their center again, carve a new path, and are at a loss for what they are to do now in the new circumstances they find themselves in.

Divorce is one of the 4 D’s, along with death, depression, disease. Any one of these 4 D’s can and will derail life if they are left unaddressed, unhealed, and smoldering under the surface.

When going through a divorce or on the brink of a divorce, these circumstances put everyone effected in urgent need of getting their lives back together, a reclamation project if you will.

Divorce not only effects the husband, wife, or life partner, but also the children involved. The sooner the grief, sorrow, loss, or trauma related to the divorce or looming divorce is addressed the better, as this can turn your life around, start your healing path, and improve the relationships around you as well.

Many clients who hear about me jump on board to Whispering Winds Healing before they are divorced to gain insight, guidance, and start the healing process before the hammer falls. Those who do, are better equipped to navigate the stress and struggles that lay waiting for them with all the lawyers, courts, family drama, the he said she said, and everything else that comes with ending a long-term relationship.

Whispering Winds Healing is a lifeline, a sounding board, and provides customized healing and guidance to women as they navigate the troubled and turbulent waters of divorce and areas of life they aren’t able to process on their own. Overwhelm is worked through, deep dark secrets exposed and healed, and the light at the end of the tunnel finally becomes visible, like a veil being lifted.

Who is this for women who are:

·       Ready to invest in themselves now that they’ve fallen into the unknown land of divorce.

·       Looking for guidance, healing, recovery to come out on the other side shining.

·       Feeling hopeless and stuck.

·       Willing, able, open, and have an urgency to improve their life.

·       Found themselves in a divorce one, two, maybe three times.

·       Have a family and want to strengthen the relationship with their kids and loved ones

·       Feel broken and lost themselves over the years.

·       Didn’t leave sooner, even though they knew it was over.

·       Domestic violence survivors and looking for a way to heal the wounds and scars.

Any big breakup is a divorce, no matter if you’re married legally or been living together for a few years. Any relationship that has taken time and money, if it ends, there is grief, sorrow, loss, or trauma and it falls into the divorce category for the turmoil and scars it leaves on us both mentally and physically.

When it ends, everyone is going for the material things, who gets the house, the country club membership, who gets half of everything, how to split time, money, resources, kids, etc. Yes, those things matter, but a large percent of females want their needs to be met. They can unlimited massages, hundreds of yoga classes, play out fantasies with the fireman or pool boy. They want what they want, but are they fulfilled? Are they really healing? Are they really moving forward?

What they need is high level help to get them to the other side. Whisper Winds Healing helps women reprogram their ambitions, aspirations, mothering, self-image, and rebuild their self-image. Maybe you are 30, 40, 50, or more and not ready for your feminine spark to be smothered out. Maybe you lost your identity and self worth in the divorce. I help and build up the women who have been broken.

In divorce, most people are used to talking about their darkness over and over, like hunting the horizon and never getting there. Talking over and over about the problem won’t produce solutions. All clients who come on board receive a program customized and crafted for their specific needs and problems they are dealing with.

Women feel welcome, safe, understood, cared for, sheltered, and a relationship of trust is built with each client to begin healing from the terrible list of things that have happened over the years, maybe for the first time in their lives. Yes, it may be uncomfortable. Yes, we will dig deep and uncover the old stories to finally heal. Yes, we will heal your mind, body, and spirit. Yes, there will be activities customized for your specific healing needs. Yes, we will uncover the unlimited healing potential within us all so you can and thrive in this life. Yes, your relationships (personal and professional) will improve when you do the inner work on yourself first.

I know what you have gone through, as I’ve lived many of your stories firsthand and made it to the other side. Healing and moving forward is possible. Don’t let someone else’s deficiencies dictate how you live your life. You deserve better. You deserve your needs to be met. You deserve to not give up on yourself. You deserve to finally have someone in your corner you can trust to help you through these turmoiled times. You deserve to heal the wounds you’ve caried for far too long.

Choose something for yourself to make a difference to improve and upgrade your life, rather than struggling to get by. Visit our website OR call to schedule your Free Initial 30-min Consultation.

Thank you, and I look forward to working with you or your loved one.

Alicia Londos ~ 224-558-0069

www.WhisperingWindsHealing.com

WhisperingWindsHealing@gmail.com